If you feel like today's kids are more stubborn and independent than ever, you're not alone.
Parents around the world are wondering: why is Generation Alpha — those born after 2010 — so bold, often arguing with adults and not afraid to express their point of view? Is this a sign of disrespect or just a new outlook on the world? Gulliver Magazine investigates.
What is different about Generation Alpha?
Generation Alpha are children born in the digital age. From an early age, they are surrounded by electronic devices, and the digital environment is a natural part of their lives. Tablets are not just toys for them, but a means of learning about the world around them. Their perception of information differs from previous generations. According to statistics, by the age of two, 58% of children in Generation Alpha already have their own tablet. They master gestures on touch screens even before they begin to speak, perceiving the world through the prism of digital technology.
In addition, they grow up in a society where inclusivity and freedom of expression are considered the norm, not something unusual. Whereas children used to agree with rules because “that’s how it’s supposed to be,” now they learn from childhood to ask questions: “Why?” and “Can we do it differently?” We analysed the study
Why do they seem bold?
If adults view Generation Alpha as less respectful, it may be because they are more confident. They are not afraid to stand up for their point of view, even if it means disagreeing with parents, teachers, or other authorities.
In the past, children were used to saying, “Okay,” “As you say,” “Yes, of course,” but today’s children are more likely to answer, “Why?”, “Explain to me,” or even “No, I’ll do it differently.” This doesn’t mean they are impolite; they just understand the concept of respect differently—for them, it’s not blind obedience, but open discussion.
The Role of Technology in Shaping Generation Alpha
Unprecedented access to technology has dramatically changed the way Generation Alpha communicates and perceives the world. They not only consume content, but also create it, participate in online discussions, learn and entertain themselves in the digital space.
Instead of traditional sources of information - books, television, and even parents - they get their knowledge from the Internet and social media. This gives them access to different points of view and allows them to quickly form their own opinions.
How can parents and teachers find common ground with Generation Alpha?
To connect with this generation, it's important not to try to "break" their audacity, but to channel it in the right direction. Here are some key principles:
Discuss, don't command. If your child argues, try to explain your position, and don't just demand obedience.
Respect their opinion. Yes, it may differ from yours, but the ability to conduct a dialogue is more important than blind agreement.
Teach them critical thinking. Instead of banning the Internet, discuss what you see, help them analyse information.
Be an example . If adults respect others and know how to have constructive discussions, children will copy this behavior.
Develop emotional intelligence. It is important to teach children that expressing an opinion should not turn into aggression or disrespect for others.
Each generation seems “different” to its elders. Parents in the 90s also complained that their children were too free-spirited, and grandparents probably thought teenagers in the 70s were too rebellious. The difference is that today’s children are growing up in a world where the boundaries between adult and childish opinions have become less strict.
Generation Alpha isn't trying to be disobedient - they just want to understand how the world works and be part of changing it. And maybe that's not such a bad thing?
